Break Ups

Going through a break up isn't easy if you had true feelings about the person. People break up with their girlfriend/boyfriend for many different reasons but sometimes they just think they want to break up. When I have a girlfriend I don't play around I take it serious and if she isn't then it's not going to work out because I want someone that is going to try. This happens a lot when two people are together and when things are going good they want to stay but when things go bad either one or both people want to split and take the easy way out. Break ups teach us a lot of things like: if you really do like the person, how you feel on that individual, knowing if that person was right for you, finding yourself, and most importantly learning for it.

You find out if that person was right for you, in other words you get to know what type of person you really want instead of your mind just saying what you think you want. There have been times when I have thought I wanted to be with someone when I just thought I did. Like when I had this one girlfriend we didn't talk much but I thought I wanted her. You get a feel for what it's like to go through the experience. The same goes for finding out if that person wasn't right for you. You find out a lot about the person you want and if she or he was right or wrong for you.

When you are with someone and it doesn't work out in the end, you find out that the person you were with wasn't right. I have had my break ups and I sure did learn from them. When I had those break ups I was sad for while some break ups longer than others but I got over it but then I learned from it and learned what I need to change on myself and what type of person I want for my future wife. I don't if some of the stuff I learned were good but to me they help me in everyday life even if my girlfriend tells me stuff on how I react to things and do things.You find out what person is right for you. When you go through a break up thats training for you to find out if yourself needs to change or if that person needed to change. Break ups are natural and they're good for you when you think about it, so don't be to much sad when you go through one just think of the stuff you got out of it.

Finding yourself is key in life. When you go through a break up you find out abilities you didn't know you had and old ones come out. It's just like when you finally understand a math problem and its easy for you to do similar problems, you feel like you're a genius and thats because you already have the ability to comprehend everything but you just discovered it. This is when you start doing things you never thought you would do. You start finding yourself in many ways you didn't know were possible.

If your going through many break ups it is because you are being trained and if you still haven't figured it out you are suppose to learn from the relationships. You learn that somethings you have to change sand somethings you have to keep the same. Every person has to have that special somebody for them they just didn't try enough to find out these things and fix them.